Earlier this month, Amanda Seales took a seat with the ladies of The Real as the shows permanent 5th addition, to join the ladies in their unfiltered discussions. Joining Loni Love, Adrienne Bailon-Houghton, Tamera Mowry-Housley, and Jeannie Mai, a discussion sparked where she talks about the difference between pride and self-worth.

After discussing how music artist, Shaggy turned down working with Rihanna because he had to audition to be included in her album, Amanda told viewers that she too had been in a situation where she had to turn a job for not agreeing with “the behaviors promoted on the show.” If you’re thinking about a show involving flying drinks, shaking tables, and the sleaze crew, then you guessed right! She is referring to Vh1’s Love and Hip-Hop.

“Ive definitely not done a job. I was broke as a joke and they asked me to host the Love and Hip Hop reunion, but I really just didn’t support the behaviors on that show, I couldn’t do it,” Seales began.  It wasn’t about pride. It was about my integrity and my self-worth.”